FACING YOUR OWN BUSINESS

If you dont know before,let me use this medium to tell you that what others think about you is none of your business..Venus williams the olympic gold medalist and professional tennis champions once said ''You have to believe in yourself when no one else does.That's what makes you a winner'' IF having others believing in you and your dream are requirement for success,i believe most of the super successful men will know today wouldnt have accomplished anything because obviously, people would have castigated them in the course of building there goals and dreams.You need to base your decisions about what you want to do on your dreams aspirations-not the goals, dreams,opinions and judgements of your parents,colleagues at work or your fiance/fiancee.Stop bothering yourself about what other people think about you and start following yourr heart. There is a rule by a man(Dr Daniel) called Dr Daniel Amen's 18/40/60 Rule:''When you are 18,you worry about what everybody is thinking of you;when you are 40,you dont give a damn what anybody thinks of you;when you 're 60,you realize nobody's been thinking about you at all". The most surprising part is that most of the time,nobody's thinking about you at all!They are too busy worrying about their own lives,and if they are thinking about you at all,they are wondering what you are thinking about them.People think about themselves,not you. Rather than continue to consider what others think about the cloth you wear,the phone you use,start thinking about your goals and how to achieve them. Conclusively,RALPH WALDO EMERSON said ''To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment'': Good night